Interview With Author Larysa Dziubenko
Tell us about yourself and how many books you have written.
My name is Larysa Dziubenko. I am a psychologist and author from Ukraine. I work with women who want to understand themselves better, heal emotional wounds, and build healthy and mature relationships. I’ve written two books so far. My writing is based on real experiences from my therapeutic practice, and I aim to speak to the heart — with honesty, support, and clarity. Each book I write is my way of helping women reconnect with their inner strength and move forward with self-respect and love.
What is the name of your latest book and what inspired it?
The name of my latest book is The Psychology of Love and Betrayal: How to Understand Yourself, Heal the Pain, and Build Mature Relationships After 30.
I was inspired to write it by the many women I’ve worked with as a psychologist — women who were trying to make sense of love, pain, and betrayal in their lives. I saw how often our childhood wounds shape our adult relationships, and how hard it can be to find clarity and strength after emotional hurt. This book is my way of offering guidance, support, and hope to women who are looking for healing and deeper self-understanding.
Do you have any unusual writing habits?
Yes, I suppose one of my unusual habits is that I often write in complete silence late at night or very early in the morning, when the world is still asleep. That quiet helps me hear my own thoughts more clearly. I also like to light a candle before writing — it creates a peaceful, focused space and reminds me that writing is not just a task but a personal ritual of reflection and connection.
What authors, or books have influenced you?
I have been deeply influenced by the works of Brené Brown, whose research on vulnerability and courage resonates with my own approach to emotional healing. I also admire Esther Perel for her insights into relationships and intimacy. Additionally, books like Attached by Amir Levine and The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown have helped shape my understanding of human connection and self-acceptance. These authors inspire me to write with honesty, compassion, and a focus on growth.
What are you working on now?
Right now, I am working on expanding my work with women’s emotional health by creating workshops and online courses that complement my books. I’m also writing a new book focused on self-love and resilience after difficult relationships. My goal is to provide practical tools and emotional support that help women rebuild confidence and create fulfilling lives.
What is your best method or website when it comes to promoting your books?
One of my best methods for promoting my books is engaging with readers on social media platforms like Facebook and Pinterest, where I share meaningful content related to psychology and relationships. I also use Amazon’s Kindle Free Promotions to reach a wider audience, combined with submitting my books to free promotional sites like Awesomegang. Building authentic connections and offering valuable insights helps me attract readers who are genuinely interested in my work.
Do you have any advice for new authors?
My advice for new authors is to be patient and persistent. Writing a book is a journey, not just a destination. Focus on sharing your authentic voice and meaningful stories that can truly help your readers. Also, don’t be afraid to learn about marketing and promotion — building an audience takes time and effort, but connecting with readers is what makes it all worthwhile. Most importantly, believe in the value of your work and keep writing.
What is the best advice you have ever heard?
The best advice I have ever heard is to “listen to your inner voice and trust your journey.” Life and creativity have many twists and turns, but staying true to yourself and your purpose helps you overcome obstacles and find fulfillment. This advice reminds me to be patient with myself and to keep moving forward, even when things feel uncertain.
What are you reading now?
Currently, I am reading Daring Greatly by Brené Brown. It offers profound insights into vulnerability and courage, which resonate deeply with my work as a psychologist and author. This book inspires me to encourage my readers to embrace their authentic selves and face emotional challenges with strength and compassion.
What’s next for you as a writer?
Next, I plan to continue expanding my work by creating more resources for women’s emotional healing, including workshops and online courses. I’m also writing a new book focused on self-love and resilience after difficult relationships. My goal is to help readers not only understand themselves better but also build fulfilling, joyful lives.
If you were going to be stranded on a desert island and allowed to take 3 or 4 books with you what books would you bring?
If I were stranded on a desert island, I would bring:
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown — for inspiration and courage.
Attached by Amir Levine — to understand human connection deeply.
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl — to find hope and purpose even in difficult times.
A favorite novel or poetry book that brings me comfort and joy.
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