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About DOMINATING AND BEING DOMINATED … a way of wasting our lives: philosophical essays

Maybe life is too short to waste it with … useless things.
Maybe it’s time to start meditating more.

To analyze our behavior … but also the one of the people around us.

To pay attention to the impact of influences over our lives … but also on the lives of others.

Understand that … domination … no matter of its character… positive or negative …. It’s a concept that we should not allow it to become real.

And we should also be aware of how a simple small influence … that is repeated on and on and on … could become … dominance …. without even realizing.

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About DOING STUPID THINGS … AN AMAZING JOURNEY: … philosophical essays

Doing stupid things …. a nice way of getting out of the borders that define to us our … boring reality

I hear many people … complaining they have … boring lives … and when i ask some of them what is going on … trying to teach them my technique of …. analyzing… defining …. as into the end to be able to totally redefine the reality itself …. i see a weird fear … that i could not understand for years.

But later on …. I’ve realized it’s the fear of making mistakes … and all sorts of stupid things … not seeing that everything is just part of this scenario … called life … and has the meaning to reveal us … its secrets.vvvv

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About MY RELATIONSHIP WITH THE DEVIL REDEFINED MY LIFE: philosophical essays

My relationship with the Devil redefined my life

Today i believe that the meaning of life is to experience it … and to understand from all those experiences what is all about.

All it looks bad … ugly … related almost with the Devil … are actually episodes that teach us powerful messages that we could simple define as … lessons of life.

But what if all those episodes keep appearing all the time … on and on and on?!

What if everything looks so damm negative in what we name life … that you could almost say that Devil is always present on your timeline?!

Is it anything we could do?!

Is it enough to go to the church and blame the Devil?!

But maybe the Devils are the people from your life … the ones that you decided to spend your life with.

… or even worst … the Devil is … YOU.

You see … going back in time, if we should analyze the concepts of the evil and also the one with the devil … we should see that it’s all about abstract concepts … and that the Devil itself is not a person, but the way we act in an evil way … in certain moments of life.

We just mix all those concepts and created the image of a powerful entity that we believe it can dominates us is a very, very ugly way … but maybe is time to redefine that concept.

We all know that we have a dark, but also a beautiful side … and many times we know to control both sides … but not always.

We have a frequency that we use in life … and that can be positive or negative … without realizing that it is all a decision … how we act in any of the episodes of life.

The auto protective mode lets us believe that … just for our protection we can act in any way we think at that moment … but later on … by analyzing and defining the past … we realize we did not know how to act properly on the stage of our own lives.

The yin and yang concept, which also is an abstract one … is letting us know that negativity can be in harmony … just near positivity.

The meaning of our reactions, especially in ugly situations … defines us … what kind of humans we really are.

Answering in a negative way … to negative events … looks almost natural … but actually means not following the path of harmony … which is the best path to follow.

Is like a virus.

We meet the Devil and we become … devils.

But again … i mention that the weird concept about the Devil is so damm old, that we actually don’t understand that it is all about our decision of following bad intentions that we have in mind or in the soul.

Abstract.

Too abstract … in fact.

But the Devil … or the negative energies that defines the energetic field where we live in … will not disappear … unless we understand the lesson of life … the message behind the message.

It could also be named … the illusion, so well hidden under the illusion of the self.

But we continue life for years … following lots or pathless paths … going to the left and to the right … not having any direction at all … and that is only cause we don’t understand the concept of … the evil and its necessity for a while.

… and seeing us so lost … the Universe decides to smile again, by simple remembering us that same as we see a dark side, same we could see the positive side.

And … all is just a simple decision.

Seeing in the Devil, which can be represented by the people we don’t like, or even by our worst enemies … the teachers that let us know what are the real laws of the Universe … should be a much better way of seeing life … in a totally redefined way.

The ugly experiences … reveal that we should appreciate more … all we have in life … and enjoy all simple beautiful things from the scene of life.

And the day when we accept and embrace all those elements generated by the evil … it is actually the day when we will realize it is time for changing our focus and experience also to the beautiful side of life … just to keep the right balance of yin and yang.

The Devil does not exists … or if it exists … the Devil is you … with your emotions and thoughts … but you can redefine everything.

… yes … you have this right of redefining absolutely everything.

That is the day when you understand that the Devil is your friend … the one that totally redefined your life … showing you as a very good teacher … what life is about.

You can embrace the Devil, which actually means to accept your dark side, as part of your experience of life … cause all those episodes could guide you to the real path we should all follow … the one of harmony.

Yes … laugh if you want … but indeed the Devil is your friend … but is actually the friend of your Ego, that one that keeps you hostage into the illusion of the self … till one day when you discover that your soul … has better friends … and you could simple change the … gang.

Just think about it … it’s all a simple theory … but maybe you should meditate over it.

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About DEPRESSION … THE GATEWAY TO THE REAL HAPPINES: … philosophical essays

Most probably … the worst disease of our times is … the depression.
And … unfortunately we can see it everywhere … at many souls from the stage of our lives.

But what i personally discovered is that depression is not really something … 100% negative.

I see it today … more as an aggressive signal … which is whispering us that … we forgot to be … happy.

Nothing more … nothing less …

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About THE DANCE OF OUR EMOTIONS IS A … NONSENSE … BUT A MAIN PART OF OUR LIVES: philosophical essays

It is difficult to understand the human being … but even worst … it is even more difficult to understand our own souls.
… our habits.

… our desires.

… our tendencies … the ones we follow.

Everything defines us … from the past … present and … a possible future … one that might appear in the way we want it to be.

And when we start to analyze what is really going on with us … but also understand that life is … not just a collection of perceptions and emotions … we start to keep wondering why the soul is always following so many contradictory directions.

Why today we feel joy inside of the soul … but tomorrow we feel so damm overwhelm by many negative energies … from all around us … that in the end makes us feel miserable …

and the beautiful vibe is disappearing … and never come back for long, long time.

It’s funny cause the Universe does not want us to be unhappy, but to understand the illusion of life …. with everything that means … problems, difficulties, hard situations etc … but to realize that always … at the end of the storm … a beautiful sunny day is appearing.

… and we should learn to enjoy it … but we remain focused on the storm … not seeing the beauty of the new sunny day.

I smile seeing in the timeline of my life … a dear friend that is keep repeating me everyday, almost as a mantra … “It’s a new day! Let’s enjoy it!” … and i am wondering is he smokes marihuana … or i am totally blind … not seeing the same reality he is watching at.

Today … what i know for sure is that my friend is not smoking anything … but i haven’t the guts to accept my blindness … and start treating myself.

I see no difference between me and my friend … but looking at him … i can’t understand yet if he is still suffering of disease that i suffer by such a long time … the dance of my emotions.

I realized about this illness i have … and i also realized … studying the statistic that defines my life … that my reality is just a reflection of all those feelings i carry in my soul.

The short story is … amazing vibes …. amazing life … negative vibes … a reality painted just in grey colors … and nothing more.

It’s quite a simple concept!

But i continue staring at this silly dance of such contradictory emotions … going to the left, then to the right … then to the left again.

The music itself … is so damm boring … but instead of pushing the stop button … and end this dance forever … i believe is a natural fact for the human being.

And i accept it … even if i should take the decision of creating the habit of connecting just to beautiful vibes … the ones that makes me feel the joy of being alive.

I suddenly realize that what i explained to my friend that it’s a beautiful dance of emotions … is actually a collection of contradictory feelings that are ruining my life.

The message of my friend was quite simple … “It’s a new day … let’s enjoy it!”.

But maybe it was so damm simple that i did not considered it as being … a good advise.

This dance was controlling my life … and even if i had the solution … i was not taking any decision.

I preferred to continue my life … as a journey to lots of pathless paths … not realizing that it is time to stop … and ask the inner self … “ What should i really do?! What is the path destined to me?! Which is the real direction i should follow” …. and maybe pray … as this silly dance of annoying contradictory feelings to stop.

And one day … i started to finally think at the fact that i am not my emotions or my perceptions.

My mind was playing around with me …. cause i never thought i should master my mind … and not let the mind control myself.

And the mind … keeps generating all types of scenarios … or perceptions … then different types of emotions are appearing … and many times contradictory ones … amplified in a silly way … and actually controlling my life.

The truth is … and i accepted that … i had not become a master of my mind … at least not yet … but i started to desire as the dance … to stop.

And not just to stop now … but stop forever.

I don’t want to live like this anymore.

I want a life connected … only at the beauty of what life has to offer.

So … at least … i have a dream.

The one … of getting rid of the non sense that was defining my life for years.

Deep inside myself i realized it is a difficult change … but once i’ve taken the decision … and also keep it in mind as a powerful desire … i am on the right path.

I pay attention to everything … to all the details that are influencing my perceptions and emotions … analyzing … defining … as in the end to always redefine the script of my life … and keep me connected to amazing vibes.

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About THE ILLUSION OF CHANGE: Statistic shows that we only replace a reality with a similar one

The real change will come only when you will accept it inside your soul …

There are so many books about change or success, that you will not have enough time to read them during this life time.

Sometimes looking for a huge success that could complete our lives … the change is just part of the script.

And success indeed can’t come without the change.

But what is the change?!

Can you do it by yourself, or you just need special help from different people?!

Or maybe the real change can come only from inside of us … and the only real help as it to happen is to accept it … not only want it.

Accept it … as part of your life.

Imagine that many years ago … you had been poor, but you dreamed to be rich.

And one day you become rich.

But the funny question is … do you accept the fact that you became rich?!

There are so many people that they were poor and then they became millionaires … but soon after they lost everything again.

So … they re became poor again.

They did not accepted the change.

Could not integrate it in their life.

When change comes in small steps … is much easier to accept it as part of our new life.

When change comes suddenly … we need to change our thinking right away … and dare to see the whole scene of life in different colors.

On the paths trough life … we get lost.

We lose all our dreams, one by another … and we also lose ourselves also.

One day … the idea of change looks illusory and we wonder why we can’t understand the fact that we are never happy anymore.

For a beautiful life, no matter if you are 20, 30, 40, 50 or even 60 or 70 … you just need a plan … the plan for the change.

But the change needs to be a positive one … and not a collection of silly desires.

And if your life is miserable today … small changes will make almost no difference at all.

The change needs to be a process of … dreaming big no matter what happens in your actual life.

But you need to visualize and accept the future … cause the real change means the break up from your past.

You will lose yourself into this process and become a new you … but if you really want a new you … you will accept it.

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About ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE: … tips and tricks for a better life

Analyse, Define, Re-define

Are you looking for a better life, one that is more fulfilling? It is often that we look for answers, answers on how to achieve this – answers relating to different themes – subject matters about health, work, relationships, friendships, passion; also themes of emotions such as love, hate, anger, joy, frustration, and happiness. I understand your search for a better life, and your desire to understand how to achieve this in the complex world we live in.

Could you have a better life right here and now? The answer is yes!

Questions that you should be asking yourself –:

What does a better life mean to me?

Is my response to life and daily activities a good one? How can I make it better?

Do I get the results I’m looking for?

Why do I do things the way I do?

Am I self-sabotaging myself from having that better life I dream of?

What limits my determined efforts to do right?

Actually – Who determines right and wrong for me?

Whom have I given permission to have control over my very existence and my ability to have a better life?

The questions go on and on. You are left in a state of confusion and haven’t gotten further.

To begin – You analyse, then define, then re-define.

To analyse is to understand. To analyse is for the search of meaning, of purpose, of reason. In search of your happiness, you need to understand yourself. Then you define – You define your thoughts and your perception of things. We then define our actions. Daily self-reflections are necessary as an important part of this process. “Appropriate or not appropriate? Could I have done this better – with more love, with more conviction, with more passion, with less intensity? With less thought? Am I overthinking? Who is the judge of all that I do? Am I my best critique?” – Personal questions with complex answers. Maybe it is just simple. Everything is quite simple once we know how.

You set your own standards based on your morals, ethics, culture, and experience. What is your intention for every action? You redefine again, and again and again, until every aspect is polish to your liking, not perfection, but it leads to a better being. The process is simple, and it repeats itself as you continue to seek to live the life of feeling at peace and in oneness with your spirit. It’s life evolution. You are forever changing in thoughts, words, and deeds. Nothing remains the same. Nothing remains forever. Your ideology of a better life is changing too.

To live in true oneness of a truly better life, the mind, body, and soul must all be in alignment with the physical and spiritual world. The work in progress is daily, it’s constantly analysing, defining, and redefining all aspects of our being. Each day is therefore a perfect day in our own imperfection.

Let us look closer and deeper into how you can live your better life right here, right now.

Introduction … by Nolene Sheppard

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About BEHIND THE ABSTRACT: … there is always a message

Someone once said to me … “I don’t want to be abstract … I want it to be real”.
It was the reply at the fact that i’ve said to her that a friend of mine, that was in fact married, was loving her in an abstract way.

But we all do the same … we refuse to understand the meaning of the abstract in our lives … or to see what is the message behind the message.

And then we live the same experiences on and on and on … and we keep wondering why … why … why??!!

I believe today that refusing to start learning the art of understanding the abstract … is a way of refusing to continue growing as a spiritual being.

Somehow the Universe, even if we dislike it, gives us the same lesson on and on and on … but we just can’t see that the Universe loves us … all of us … and tries all the time to save and help us … to understand what we call lessons of life.

The abstract is strange sometimes … i know … but seeing what is behind the abstract, you understand the meaning of life.

So … how should we start?!

Where we should pay more attention in the events from our lives?!

Well … somehow is quite simple.

Everything has a huge impact on us … annoys us in a terrible way … or has a repetitive character … in there you will find the meaning of the lessons you need to study.

In the end … we can even use the slogan … “It’s not what it looks like” … cause probably this is the real definition of the abstract.

But can we ignore the signs?! … the lessons?!

You might have moments when you could believe that … but then the power of the message will have a stronger intensity.

And will be repeat on and on and on … and the abstract values will annoy you in a terrible way.

The solution?!

Maybe … just have an opened mind and pay attention to the details.

So … we should spend life only meditating?!

Sure not … but we should keep the right balance between living and enjoying life … and also thinking about it … its messages and how we could grow as spiritual beings.

And probably keep in mind that … behind the abstract there is a always message.

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