About Supercommunicator Spouses
All happy, successful marriages have five things in common:
1): Husband and wife are friends and lovers. This means there’s mutual trust, and there’s safe emotional space that encourages open and honest communication. Both partners feel at ease in each other’s presence, and are free to share what they think – and to share their experiences of living with the other person.
2): They work on their marriage – and on their lives – as a team. Husband and wife get to support each other in their core priorities.
3): They’re life builders (they enrich their relationship by sharing meaningful “life-affirming” experiences with each other)
4): They’re King and Queen (meaning that there is an unshakable alliance between them – and for each, their spouse is their number one priority.
5): They’re masters of growth and healing. They learn to embrace their problems, seeing them as opportunities for growth. They create an environment of acceptance and nurturing for each other’s inner pain.
All of this can be summed up in one sentence… happily married couples give each other pleasure; they do not cause each other pain. And the key to achieving all these things is for both partners to become supercommunicators, so they can negotiate a modus vivendi – a way of life for a happy, successful marriage; a way of living together where true intimacy will be preserved in the relationship.
True intimacy is a key ingredient in all successful marriages.
This is the goal of this book – to give you the tools, technologies or strategies to become super communicators in your marriage. These “tools” will help whether you’re newly married and looking to buttress your marriage for the long haul, or you’re in a troubled marriage that you’re trying to save.
“If you want [to achieve] something extraordinary, you have two paths: 1) Become the best at one specific thing. 2) Become very good (top 25%) at two or more things,” said Scott Adams (creator of the Dilbert cartoon strip, also the author of How To Fail At Almost Anything And Still Win Big).
[Source: Tools of Titans by Tim Ferriss]
Adams recommends that one of these two things you become very good at must be communications. This book will show you how to become very good (top 5%) as a communicator, specifically in your marriage – but the skills you get will ripple out and positively impact your work-life and other areas of your life.
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Author Bio:
Pat Fonda is a mother, writer, and she also dabbles in home-based business. She is passionate about parenting, child development, and relationship topics. Writing self-help guides for parents, such as this resource on leveraging emotional intelligence and superior communications to build true intimacy in marriage, is an adventure in understanding and relating with her own spouse and her family. It is also her way of contributing by distilling crucial answers to the burning questions people have today.
My unique talent and contribution is looking at a problem and thinking in 3D, then coming up with simple solutions the average person can put into action and get the results they’re looking for fast and easily. I then cut through the clutter and put it all together such that it’s compact, distilled, and easy to understand