Tell us about yourself and how many books you have written.
I was born in Adelaide, South Australia; I moved to Sydney, New South Wales when I was nineteen (for love, marriage, children and dogs).
For a long time, I just assumed my childhood was an average one (although … having a lamb as a domestic pet in an urban setting should have been a giveaway). My parents were not your average Aussies and I was not your average kid. They were born and raised in Egypt, Jewish and of Romanian descent. I was a misfit, caught in a cultural crossfire as they struggled to assimilate. Not an easy road, but, oh … what fabulous raw materials for a writer!
‘Odyssey in a Teacup’ is my first novel, but there’s still an anthology of dysfunction imprinted on my psyche and hankering for show-and-tell.
What is the name of your latest book and what inspired it?
My whole life inspired ‘Odyssey in a Teacup’. I’d always thought my existence was … meh, you know, nothing special. And it was for quite some time because I’d conformed (conforming makes you dull and is utter damnation for a wild child). But when I started writing (first, in a personal journal after my parents passed away twenty-four years ago), memories of childhood, adolescence and early adulthood resurfaced. Seeing these through an increasingly clearer lens, I realised my existence hadn’t been mundane at all; it had been ridiculous! I was able to perceive the comedy in events and occurrences that were tragic in childhood. I also remembered that I’d had that ability as a child, but I had systematically shut it down because laughing at inappropriate times did not go over well back then, and I was often in sh*t! At home, at school … everywhere.
Although my book is a work of fiction, just like my life, it’s ‘The Ugly Duckling’ meets ‘The Odyssey’ in satire. It’s had a long incubation—I started it fourteen years ago! Hey, great things take time (and pay off)—I was chuffed when it became a bestseller on Amazon not long after its release, and after two months, a US Amazon #1 bestseller (humour & satire).
Do you have any unusual writing habits?
I’m usually saturated with ideas in the shower. When I’m done, I’ll just wrap a towel around myself, drip all over the carpet on the way to my study, just sit and pound away at the keyboard, and dry off naturally. Also, if I’m stuck on an idea, I’ll lie on the bed, but in the opposite direction (to the way I sleep) and with my feet up the wall. This 180° physical rotation usually elicits a turnaround in perspective. And I record my thoughts on paper, which is a much more organic way of writing than the computerised writing space (and it yields deeper insights).
What authors, or books have influenced you?
Many authors and many books. I guess every one has in some way influenced me (sometimes that manifests as what not to do!). In terms of structure, since I’ve been writing, I’ve become mindful of writers’ techniques and what makes a book interesting, for example, fleshing out a character through dialogue (not just description), which engages the reader’s imagination and allows her/him to fill in the gaps.
In terms of content, the books that have most influenced and inspired me are ‘Women Who Run with the Wolves’ by Clarissa Pinkola Estés, and ‘Care of the Soul’ by Thomas Moore. These have been game-changers. Estés and Moore’s unusual take on the human psyche might seem like a new view, but it really just revamps a cobwebby old one, and demonstrates how ancient myths can help us understand what really drives our thoughts, impulses and behaviours. For me, this has breathed life into the tragicomical perspective that had been dormant in my psyche, and it’s resuscitated a sacred obscenity! It has also ignited a passion for a creative and multifaceted approach to the many great themes of the human condition (illness included. I applied this to my honours thesis, which addressed our collectively authored cancer story).
What are you working on now?
I’m having fun writing the sequel to ‘Odyssey in a Teacup’! And I’m also regularly blogging on the mythical approach to life.
What is your best method or website when it comes to promoting your books?
I don’t believe there is just ‘one’ best website to promote a book (all have something to offer: Twitter, LinkedIn, Facebook, Pinterest, Goodreads, and my own website—www.paulahouseman.com). The ‘one’ best method to promote is CREATIVITY! And that comprises myriad techniques: proactivity (participating, having a regular presence on a variety of sites); flexibility (if one way doesn’t work, try another), adaptability (if one way works and then stops working, rejig it); tenacity (don’t be discouraged by slumps. I’ve learned that ebb is as necessary a part of the creative process as flow. So I apply that to all aspects of life); self-belief (remembering that I have a marketable product. I’ve spent years writing a book that I’m proud of and believe can make a difference to my readers!)
Do you have any advice for new authors?
If there’s nothing you’d rather be doing than writing, then just write! Don’t worry about censoring yourself, or plots, and don’t try to adhere to a formula. There isn’t one, and if you do have one, it’ll change! Don’t fret over self-doubt and other creative blocks. Don’t expend too much energy trying to find a solution to these. When you get that there’s purpose in them (not least that they keep you humble), you’ll see there is no solution because there is no problem! Write from the heart, believe that you have something to offer the world, and trust that everything else will follow (of course, you need to act on insights).
What is the best advice you have ever heard?
Mainstream views have never sat well with me and I’ve struggled to find who I ‘belong’ with, who I can totally be myself with, who really gets me—all of me. ‘Women Who Run with the Wolves’ is filled with guidance. But the one (of many) that has made the most difference to me is Estés’s counsel that we must keep searching for our pack, and that our ‘true kin’ may not necessarily be a group of people! It may be an ‘art form’. I’d read this hundreds of times, and then recently it fell into place for me. I’ve found my ‘true kin’ in writing. When I write, I feel like I’ve found ‘home’.
What are you reading now?
I’m just finishing a Robert Crais novel (thriller/mystery), ‘Voodoo River’, and I have a Danielle Steel novel, ‘Undercover’, waiting in the wings.
What’s next for you as a writer?
Hopefully, releasing another bestseller (the sequel to ‘Odyssey in a Teacup’). And I’ll keep blogging.
If you were going to be stranded on a desert island and allowed to take 3 or 4 books with you what books would you bring?
An eclectic combination: ‘Women Who Run with the Wolves’ to soothe and nourish my soul and strengthen my spirit in this confronting situation; a Danielle Steele novel to remind me that we’re all tested, and for a dash of romantic escapism; a book by Janet Evanovich and a Lee Child novel for their respective lead characters, the kick-arse Stephanie Plum—to help me see the humour—and the indomitable Jack Reacher—to give me courage, to inspire a creative way to survive my predicament and to help me find a way out of it.
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